
YāALL. It took forever for the first day of fall. I donāt know what the calendar says up north, but here in Florida, itās still summer’s stubborn little sister. No matter the temperature though the candles are lit, and my cart (physical and digital) is overflowing with things I absolutely do not need⦠and absolutely will buy.
Because something happens to me this time of year. Itās like the first pumpkin candle ignites a switch in my brain and suddenly:
- I need a new blanket (even though I own seven).
- I need another mug (even though I drink iced coffee year-round).
- I need a wreath. Why? Because itās fall and I deserve it.
š Fall Is a State of Mind (and Iām Living in It)
This is my favorite time of year.
Thereās something about it that just makes me feel like Iām stepping into a season of possibility ā and also possibly into Target 3x a week.
Because fall doesnāt just signal cooler air (ha, not here) ā it jumpstarts the holidays, and with that, my spending habits spiral faster than a cinnamon broom on clearance.
š The Season of āJustified Shoppingā
Fall kickstarts the Holiday Spiralā¢. You know the one:
- Fall stuff now,
- Halloween dƩcor tomorrow,
- Christmas by bedtime.
And once those farm fresh pumpkins hit the shelves, I become the kind of girl who says āautumnalā without irony and considers burnt orange a neutral.
Itās not just shopping.
Itās seasonal preparation.
Itās cozy optimization.
Itās emotional support retail and honestly? Iām fine with that.
š Whatās Currently in My Cart (No Judgement, Please)
- A burnt orange cardigan that feels like a hug from a Hallmark boyfriend
ā This cozy Amazon find is dangerous in the best way. - Candle that smells like āIām emotionally stableā even if Iām not
ā Find your mood-scented match and light it with delusion and joy.
I told myself I was just looking and next thing I knew, I had 8 tabs open, a cart full, and a warm fuzzy feeling in my heart. (And a āyour order has shippedā email in my inbox.)
š Itās Not About the Stuff
Okay, it is a little bit about the stuff.
But itās also about the vibe:
The way fall wraps around you like your favorite blanket ā even when your dayās a mess.
Itās the only season where scented candles and oversized sweaters count as self-care.
So yes, my wallet may be whimpering⦠but my soul is thriving.
š Fall in Florida, According to Me:
- Wearing cozy socks indoors with the AC on 69
- Drinking pumpkin cream cold brew with ice, because we adapt
- Taking porch selfies in flannel while praying for a breeze
- Decorating like itās Vermont, sweating like itās July
- Lighting a cinnamon candle and pretending my neighborsā palm tree is a maple
And honestly? I wouldnāt have it any other way…for now.
š¬ Letās Chat:
Are you decorating for fall even though the weather isnāt cooperating?
Whatās your go-to āfake it ātil itās fallā ritual?
Drop it in the comments. Letās normalize seasonal delusion together.
šUntil next timeā¦
May your shopping be justified, your coffee be pumpkiny, and your Amazon packages arrive when no one else is home.
With fall love and full carts,
Natalieš§”